8 Lessons Learned from a Suburban to Country Gal

8 Lessons Learned from a Suburban to Country Gal

Deborah Salvodon

If you told me three years ago that I would leave my suburban home that holds my core memories and the state that I grew up in for most of my life and move to the countryside, I probably would’ve laughed in your face and believed that you were teasing me. Since beginning my new life in the country, I’ve learned many lessons on building a sense of abundance while leading a simple existence.


Lesson 1: It is Ok to Learn to Slow Down in Life

I grew up moving around quite a bit. I had the privilege of traveling to different states within the U.S and eight countries outside the United States. I had to reevaluate what it meant to have a meaningful life when I first moved here, which was a cathartic experience. Even I can admit that I was guilty of the overall premise that individuals respect themselves more when engaged in various activities. True fulfillment cannot be attained through the acquisition of material goods or by frequently traveling to different locations and engaging in exhilarating new experiences. I believe it to be a little more intricate than that. It’s a stage of life’s journey where we keep learning what brings us happiness.

Lesson 2: The Cultivation of Happiness Requires Self-Knowledge and Compassion

There is no quick fix for sadness; instead, I believe joy must be nurtured like a seed, and that seed will be natured through prayer and quiet time alone with our Heavenly Father. It would be best if you allowed it to grow and kept an eye on it. Sometimes it doesn’t yield the abundance you wished for or prayed for, but it invariably does in a year or two. The creator of pleasure is the God of the heavens and the earth. He is the brilliant being who invented it originally. According to this viewpoint, the fact that happiness has higher origins explains why we cannot genetically pinpoint its genesis. Biblical Scripture clarifies how to achieve satisfaction: obeying God is pleasurable. Joy comes through faith in Christ. Biblical Christianity’s central tenet is that holiness makes you happy.

Lesson 3: Gain Knowledge from Nature’s Seasons

The notable feature to understand is that nothing ever stays the same for very long; just as the seasons change, so will you. It is hard to foresee where your life will go in the future; I could never have anticipated that I would be living where I’m right now. Every shift in the weather should serve as a reminder of God’s omnipotent promises, creative ability, and timeline. Throughout our lives, God leads us through varying spiritual seasons. He uses them to strengthen our faith, draw us nearer to Him, and mold us into the people He made us be. God lavishes us with His grace in a very liberal manner. Keep an eye on how He faithfully works in your life, always.

Lesson 4: Look for a Setting that Best Meets Your Needs

The suburban lifestyle was too much for my gentle, sensitive spirit. I’ve always wanted to live in the country, but it wasn’t until I moved here that I understood how important one’s surroundings are to their capacity for creativity and mental wellness. In my opinion, rural life provides a favorable atmosphere for maintaining healthy bodies that respect God and equip one for efficient community service. Most individuals would contend that living in the country is inactive, selfish, and secluded. Instead, I’ve seen that it is thriving, engaged, and mission-driven. Living in the country has shown me the wonders of God through seeds that we plant and how a Garden grows or how taking care livestock is so rewarding; seeing how these animals depend on us for their survival reminds me every day of my dependency on God for my survival.

Lesson 5: Comparison Diminishes Innovation and Steals Originality

Living in a rural region has given me new perspectives in numerous ways, and it has given me the confidence to live my life as I see fit and follow God’s values rather than comparing them to others. Before I got here, I had no idea how much I was living by cultural standards; instead, I have learned to enjoy the little things such as fishing on Sunday afternoon or having dinner with my neighbors around the fire pit, and just worshiping God in an open field where all you hear is the sweet whispers of the trees around you as if they were joining in with you to worship our creator the God of heaven its brings so much Joy and peace to me.

Lesson 6: You Can Cultivate Satisfaction in the Rhythms of Daily Life By Finding Joy in Small Emotions

The daily experiences and pleasures of simple living helped me reconnect with what brings me joy over time. The humming of hummingbirds outside my window was enough to make my day almost perfect; I no longer needed to go out seeking experiences, continually travel, or accumulate goods to feel as though my life was flourishing.

Lesson 7: If You Know How to See It, Magic is All Around You

For instance, because my youngest brother has special needs, spending time with him and seeing the world through his eyes reminds me to shift my perspective, 2 weeks ago, we were sitting outside with some friends. He said Debbie look up, and when I looked up, I was amazed at the sky; the handyworks of God were breathtaking. Seeing it through my brother’s eyes reminded me to enjoy the simple things and recognize that living is all about making the most of each day.

Lesson 8: Learning a New Skill is a Joy That Lasts a Lifetime

I am continually astonished by how my new lifestyle pushes me and sparks my imagination. Along with reading and writing, I am also experimenting with new crafts and challenging but fulfilling skills. Even though we frequently want the freedom to roam the globe whenever we feel like it, I’ve discovered that developing new skills and trying out new little house recipes is pleasurable and can provide lifelong fulfillment. I urge you to rediscover your enthusiasm for studying new things. Now I’m not saying that rural living is not challenging. It is, you are typically far from everything and have to drive a longer distance to the city, and if you are a person who doesn’t like quietness, then it’s not for you. But for me, the positive outweighs the negative.


I hope this blog post helped you think more peacefully. I’m not trying to help anyone with their problems. I’m just sharing the tiny things I’ve learned from living in a rural region about how to foster a sense of wealth in a culture that frequently emphasizes lack and pessimism. While we can acknowledge the gloom, there is much joy in this world. We must be careful to spread the light from our hearts to those around us.


I’d like to know my readers’ thoughts. Comment below which city or country life you prefer and why?

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