Given the general controversy surrounding this topic, my question could be putting too much pressure on some. All I can say is that you asked for it, though, as you are still here reading, which indicates that you are interested in what I have to say.
You could wonder what distinguishes femininity from feminism. According to “so-called experts,” such as the Cambridge Dictionary, femininity is “the fact or quality of having characteristics traditionally thought to be typical of or suitable for a woman.” On the other hand, Cambridge defines feminism as “the belief that women should be allowed the same rights, power, and opportunities as men and be treated in the same way, or the set of activities intended to achieve this state.”
The delusion that there is a problem with femininity, which numerous generations of women have perpetuated, is incredibly startling. Regretfully, while being encouraged as a young woman to compete and exemplify masculinity, we have been brainwashed by various media outlets that masculinity and masculine characteristics are toxic. Why, then, is it acceptable for me or another woman to exhibit the harmful qualities that you’re also pointing out?
Applying the traits of femininity is more important than appearing to be feminine. To walk in femininity and exhibit the spirit of femininity, we must comprehend the heart of the Most High and learn to live it according to the will that He had for women. It involves allowing the Holy Spirit to detach us from traits that we have permitted culture and media or even our own experiences, whether they were good or bad, to be removed from us so that we can genuinely be the examples of women walking in her skin without feeling she has to be something other than what her Heavenly Father created her to be. At the same time, I know what I’m saying sounds archaic. Being a woman comfortable in her femininity means exhibiting beauty, serenity, and grace. She has the confidence of her father. She is proud of her role and knows that her role in this life and society is as vital as her male counterparts. It’s been said you catch more flies with honey than vinegar, so in a world that teaches us to be hard, it’s ok to be soft and gentle and reign with elegance.
- The Art of Softness – Many of us were raised to be strong women to survive. It’s not necessary to constantly be wary or constantly pushy and confrontational. My daily contact with others has softened and made me appear more feminine, and as a result, I’ve received more respect in a gentle, non-aggressive manner.
- The Art of Tone – Not speaking or not expressing yourself is not the issue; instead, it’s how you say things that matter. It has to do with how you communicate and express yourself.
- The Art of How We Present Ourselves – In our society, attempting to show oneself as a woman is considered a once-in-a-lifetime experience. Nowadays, ladies dress like they’re trying out for the Bachelor or leave their homes looking like they just got out of bed. We can distinguish ourselves by setting ourselves apart as feminine women, whether through personal grooming choices or attire selection.
- The Art of Re-Kindling Our Nurturing Spirit – I see fewer and fewer ladies with nurturing hearts and souls as time passes. We are repressing a part of ourselves that was created in the image of our Heavenly Creator, which is truly heartbreaking. We as women can aim our innate caring spirit toward many situations or individuals in need.
- The Art of Learning to Respect Roles – Recognizing that there is a natural order does not diminish your worth or strength. The establishment of that natural order was to ensure society would continue to display the excellent work of the Most High, and the less feminine we become, the less opportunity there will be for us to nature our son’s heart to know how to love and care and nature the hearts of their wife and future daughters. And for our daughters to see us walking in our role with our hearts submitting to our heavenly father.
Overall, a lady is pleasant and kind, yet she is neither flamboyant, arrogant, foolish, or dim-witted. She is generous and holy. We have the virtue of femininity, you and I, lovely ladies who might be reading this; the more feminine we are, the more masculine men will be, and the more the Most High will be exalted. Be females and only females. Be authentic, ladies who submit to the Almighty.
Don’t shy away from letting me know your thoughts down below in the comments. Do you agree or disagree from what I presented? Would you identify as a feminist or a woman who practices femininity? Thank you for reading! (: